Sexpert’s Illustrated Guide to 42 Sizzling Sex Tips for Around the House–Hot!

Turn Everyday Sex into Sizzling Adventures!

Bored with the same old sexual routines? Try some of these 28 sexy tips to reawaken your libido, desire and love life!

1. Fantasies Can Come True

What are your hottest sexual fantasies? Hot showgirl does a striptease for you? Scorching cowboy rescues you from a burning building? Our number One tip is the time to share it all with your lover. Just talking about what turns you on boosts arousal and provides an avenue of exciting escape. Remember, you can make your wildest fantasies come true by using your imagination. You don’t have to actually have a threesome to enjoy the erotic benefits. Create the world you want to explore with your lover and act out your secret thoughts in a relaxed and playful manner without the risk of involving other people.

2. Erotic Foods

Get in the mood together with a meal that includes natural aphrodisiacs. Add sexy foods to your shopping list and try a feat in the living room where you can sit comfortably and feed each other. You can also turn your lover into a delectable smorgasbord as you eat and lick the food off their naked body.

Try Pumpkin Pie: Pumpkin Pie or Pumpkin Seeds are the top contender to increase penile blood flow at an average of 40% faster.

Chocolate: Chocolate includes caffeine and a plant substance called phytosteral that mimics human sex hormones.

Seafood: Seafood releases testosterone and is high in iodine, which is needed by the thyroid gland that regulates energy, including sexual energy. Seafood – releases testosterone.

3. Steamy Shower for Two

Showering together is a surefire way to get you both turned on. Get the temperature right, let the room fill with steam and invite your lover in to join you. Starting from the top and working your way down, take turns giving each other a rub down with your favorite scented body wash. The thicker the lather the better!

Press your wet, slippery bodies up against each other and let anticipation build as you gyrate together. After a quick rinse, through some soft fluffy towels on the floor and have oral sex in the 69 position (or whichever way your imagination takes you!).

4. The Ties That Bind

Whether or not Fifty Shades appealed to you, a bit of light bondage in the bedroom has been known to transform sexual relationships from ho-hum to HOT! Find two scarves or men’s ties and tell your lover that you want to try something new (of course, make sure to ask for consent first!). Begin with a little foreplay as you undress each other, and make your way over to the bed. Then gently place one tie around your lover’s eyes as a blindfold, and talk softly and assuredly about what is going to happen next. Gently take your lover’s wrists and tie them to the bed, or to each other.

What you do next is completely up to your and your lover, but remember that you are in complete control, so take your time teasing and pleasing – and that includes yourself! You’ll be surprised how inhibited you feel making love to your lover while they are blindfolded. Its’ liberating for both of you, especially if one or both of you are a bit shy to let go and get kinky, raw and wild in the bedroom, and oh-so sensually erotic as well.

5. Sexy Selfies

6. Mutual Voyeurs

Throw inhibitions aside and enjoy one of the most intimate sexual experiences available to you: watching each other masturbate. If you really want to make some drastic changes where your sex life is concerned, then take matters into your own hands – literally – and let your partner watch. With the lights down low and music playing in the background, let the music move through you, in you, and around you as you undress and play with your body the way you would if you were alone. I guarantee your lover will be taking off their clothes a moment later, becoming uncontrollably aroused. Then when your lover joins in, make sure you watch too, and let them know that their pleasure is putting you over the edge.

7. Sensational Senses

8. Be A Sex Slave

This experience works best on weekends so that you can devote all the time of one (or two) days to satisfying the whims and desires of your lover. A sex slave is someone who is available night or day, no questions asked, and a great sex slave is someone who is willing to play the role wholeheartedly. Find the right outfit to get into character, chosen by – of course – your lover, and then do whatever your lover tells you to do! Don’t forget to change roles on a separate occasion because it is a well known fact that someone who has been a good slave can be a good master! The important thing to remember is to discuss your sexual boundaries before embarking on your slave and master role-‐playing so that you can respect each others sexual limits and keep the whole game fun for both of you.

9. Kink-O-Rama

10. Lunchtime Quickie

Send a provocative text to your lover inviting them to meet you somewhere private for a lunchtime quickie. If going to a motel or hotel is out of the question, then meet at home, but make sure it’s clear that it’s a secret from the others at the office or workplace. It’s
a lot like having an affair, only this way you’re not really cheating on anyone.

There’s an added sense of excitement that comes with knowing that while everyone
else is out and about on their lunch break doing errands or eating a sandwich, you’re both
enjoying something much more satisfying.

11. Find Her Secret Garden

Madonna once sang about her playing in her “secret garden.” In this song, she makes it sound like such a wonderful, fantastically sexy place, but another more common term for her euphemism is the G-spot. Named for Dr. Ernest Grafenberg, the G-spot is a highly
erogenous zone about two inches inside the vagina. According to Dr. Grafenberg, when the G-spot is stimulated, a woman becomes highly aroused and may ejaculate, expelling a clear transparent fluid that is synonymous to what a male expels during orgasm (without the sperm, obviously).

12. Build Romance

13. Let Laughter Turn You On

What makes you laugh? What makes your lover laugh? Is it a funny movie, tickling each other, having a pillow fight, naked wrestling, reading jokes or throwing grapes at each other? Whatever it is, you should be doing more of it, so here’s your opportunity to
create a date filled with laughter. It has the power to add energy to your life and to chase away the blues. You can create great memories through laughter, so even if it takes
buying a sex swing and making a fool of yourself for love, do it!

14. Ménage À Trois

Having a threesome is one of the most common fantasies for both men and women, but did you know that you can also create a ménage à trois in your imagination? If you don’t want to complicate things with an actual third person, make this fantasy come true through the power of suggestion. Create a scenario together while you’re having sex, describing that third person and what they might be doing to add to your experience. Use plenty of erotic talk and you may not even realize the difference between fantasy and reality.

15. Sensual Sponge Bath

16. Go Commando!

If you’re the kind of person who likes getting dressed up for no particular reason, then you
might also like the idea of adding a little pleasure underneath your regular clothes. A nice outfit goes over well in the office, at the mall and at the martini lounge, but what about behind closed doors? The next time you’re about to step out of the house wearing your Sunday best, think about adding a little Saturday night pizzazz underneath. That way
you’ll be well prepared for that afternoon quickie when your lover turns up unannounced.

Knowing that you’ve got nothing on underneath will add an extra spring to your step and it could give you the sexual confidence you’ve been lacking. Make sure you let your lover know that you are going “commando” once you are at the restaurant, in the movie theatre or wherever you are and watch your lover squirm with excitement.

17. Become Strangers

Arrange to meet your lover at a bar, coffee shop or club that neither of you have ever been to before. Wait for you lover at the bar or counter and order yourself a drink. When your lover shows up, offer to buy the first drink. Then, ask a number of questions, pretending that you do not know this person sitting next to you. This new found curiosity will rekindle your passion for each other making it all the more exciting to take this
seemingly one night stand back to your place where the sex will most assuredly be fantastic!

18. Strip Poker

19. Sensual Massage for Penis Owners

Put plenty of massage oil in your hands and warm it up by rubbing your hands together, then slowly spread it all over his penis and testicles. Next place one hand on the shaft of his penis and start stoking it in an up and down motion while the other
hand gently encircles his testicles. Do this in slow motion for at least three minutes.

Next, gently rub his penis with both hands as if rubbing a stick to make a fire. This is a sure way to light his fire! Now make both hands go in opposite directions in a corkscrew motion over the penis. One hand twists up while the other hand twists
downwards. Do this for at least another three minutes. After that, concentrate on just massaging his penis from the top to the bottom, covering the glans (head) and sliding your hands down to the base with one hand after another in a fluid motion. Do this for about ten strokes and don’t be surprised if he can’t stand it any longer and has to make passionate love to you.

20. Sensual Massage for Vulva Owners

Clitorial stimulation: Gently pull the clitoral hood back from the clitoris to expose it. Then
slide your thumb and forefinger up and down the sides of the clitoris for about ten strokes. You may feel it growing as it becomes more excited.

A clitoris can grow three to four times its normal size when it’s fully engorged. Next, massage the head of the clitoris in circular motions using your forefinger or thumb. Don’t be surprised if she has a body melting, earth shattering orgasm. The clitoris has 8000 nerve fibers and it’s the primary sexual organ for a woman. Most women are capable of having a clitoral orgasm when it is stimulated.

Two Lips: Gently part her outer lips with both of your thumbs and caress them in circular motions for at least two minutes. Next, slide your thumbs up and down her
outer lips until they are spread apart, and then do the same with her inner lips. The
inner lips are more sensitive than the outer lips, so use less pressure. Watch for her body language and for the swelling of her vaginal lips, which is a natural progression when a woman gets sexually aroused.

Feminine Genital Massage: On the female genitals, you might want to use a water-‐based
lubricant because if oil gets inside the vagina, it can cause irritation. Put the lube in your hands and rub your hands together before placing them her. Start by focusing
on the vulva, which is the outside visible area of the vagina. Then gently rub around her vaginal lips all the way down to her anus. Using the pad of your thumb, trace the outline of her anus and then slowly slide your thumb up the landing strip (perineum) from her anus to her vaginal opening.

21. Morning Glory

22. Oral Delights

How about using a cube of ice in your mouth while administering oral delights on your lover? What about drinking hot liquids before giving oral sex? A hot tongue might be even more exciting than a cold one. A skilled tongue will usually bring your lover to the highest level of erotic arousal he/she is capable of. Keep your hands on your lover’s body, caressing the inner thighs, scrotum, nipples, prostate or rectum areas and pay special attention to body language.

For Vulva Owners: Most women enjoy having their mons kissed, their labia sucked, and a talented tongue along the crease where her labia come together. Be observant of her body
language as she presses herself against you; slip your tongue inside her vagina, working
your way up towards her clitoris. Use your entire tongue, dragging it across her clitoris
from the base all the way to the point. Move your tongue from side to side like
windshield wipers. Try circular motions as well, both around her clitoris and on it too.
Turn your head to the side, alternating again between licking in quick, short
strokes and slowly dragging your tongue across her clit from base to point. Don’t be
afraid to come at her from a different angle!

For Penis Owners: Most men will agree that they need more pressure on their penis than
women are aware of. So ladies, don’t be afraid of breaking it. Lavish plenty of attention on
the glans (head) with a strong vacuum-style suck. Flicking the frenulum (the ‘sweet spot under the head) will undoubtedly make him weak at the knees, as will circular motions around the glans; long flat licks up and down the shaft combined with pointy tongue motions bordering the glans will also be welcomed. And don’t forget to bestow plenty of oral pleasure around the scrotum.

23. Erotic Talk

Erotic talk happens to be one of the most powerful forms of seduction. It can make your love life more exciting, more creative and more fun. It can create more intimacy and definitely improves communication. Your only limit is your imagination. Remember, your most erotic sex organ is your brain. This is where all sexual behavior begins and we all have the same size sex organ. It’s what you do with it that counts. By using words and phrases that excite your lover, you can bring both greater passion and a greater sense of connection to your lovemaking. You can even open up doors of communication which may have previously been closed.

24. Write On Me

A picture may paint a thousand words, but words alone can be an incredibly powerful and
seductive communication tool. The next time you and your lover are lying naked in bed
together, have your partner roll over on his/her side. Without blankets and with the lights
down low, begin writing sexy messages on your lover’s back using your finger, a chop stick, or erotic finger paints– one word at a time. It’s a bit of a guessing game, but if you
choose your words carefully you’re guaranteed to get a rise out of your partner. A few
naughty words can turn into something hot and heavy and that’s exactly how this game is
played and won. Take turns at writing messages and see who gets in the last word.

25. Bi-gasm

26. Switching it Up

Playing Top or Bottom. Take turns switching between being a Top and a Bottom so that you can be a dominant one day and a submissive the next. As a Top, you can take away your slave’s senses to make any punishment experience more intense. Take away their sense of
sight with a blindfold, remove their sense of touch by restraining them, and deprive them of hearing with earplugs or earmuffs. Now you can stroke your lover’s body with ice or any other textures to give them an unexpected thrill.

27. Shrimping

28. Dance Naked Like No-one is Watching

Being naked empowers you to become more comfortable in your body and dancing to
your favorite turn-‐on music (whether its jazz, rock, rap or soul) improves your body posture and boosts your self-confidence. Do it in front of your lover to distract him or her when they are watching TV and you can pretty much guarantee a night of hot sex.

29. Breast Sex

This is a wonderful activity when you are not in the mood for intercourse. Place his penis between her breasts, push them together and let them slide between the cleavage using plenty of lubricant for extra comfort and ease.

30. Find Their Hot Spots

31. Sex Picnic

Buy all of your lover’s favorite finger foods -‐ hot and cold -‐ and create a picnic in the middle of your bed. Spread out a large sheet and cover it with the variety of delectables. Take turns feeding each other, slowly licking each other’s fingers sensuously. Then play “hide the honey!” Decide who is going to be the hider and who is going to be the seeker, then the hider must hide a dab of honey somewhere on their body and tell their lover to find it wearing a blindfold using only their tongue!

32. Dominatrix

33. Scent-sational Sex

Our sense of smell is primal. Why not get your olfactory system working for you in the bedroom? The smell of pumpkin pie has been shown to increase blood flow to the penis by 40%! And the same is true for women with the smells of licorice. Looking for a few other good suggestions?

Try: cedar, ginger, jasmine, magnolia, rose oil, sandalwood, and ylang ylang. Have a
scentsational show with your lover, blindfold him/her and ask him/her to rate their favorite
aromas from 1 to 10 with 10 being the best. Once you’ve determined the most appealing scent for your lover, make it a ritual to use the aroma during your lovemaking sessions.

34. Sexy Bathtime Relax

35. Sex Around the House

Instead of making love only in the bedroom, christen all the furniture in every room,
including the laundry room – spin cycle, anyone? There are also lots of common household items you can use for creative foreplay including a feather duster for tickling, a rolling pin for massaging, and a spatula for spanking, just to name a few. See how many common household items you can find to incorporate into foreplay. You can use
neckties or scarves as blindfolds for your lover while you lavish him/her with oral sex.
You can also ask your lover to restrain your arms or legs with a belt or some pantyhose, when it’s your turn to receive oral sex. You can caress their body with an assortment of fabrics such as velvet, lace, satin, silk, latex, leather and fur. And see if they can guess the fabric and where you’re going to use it next. The key is to create lots of sexual anticipation all around your home.

36. Sexy Kissing

37. Naked Yoga

Doing sexual yoga together is one of the best ways to boost confidence, flexibility and strength as you mirror each other’s poses and share energy through breath, movement, sound, intention and attention. The reason that yoga is better than any other exercise is because watching your lover do the same movements as you will cause mirror neurons to be triggered in the touch part of the brain. This results in both people feeling the same emotions and experiencing the same sensations that can boost confidence.

38. Striptease

39. Nipple Orgasm

Nipple stimulation can produce an orgasm. For women, having their breasts caressed and nipples sucked releases Oxytocin, the chemical that makes them feel like they are in love. This is an area that many men enjoy stimulating during foreplay, but rarely think of as having orgasmic potential. Ask her if she gets turned on by having her breasts played with. If so, then follow these directions.

Begin by caressing and licking both of her breasts, not just her nipples. Alternate each one as you use the flat of your tongue in lapping motions all around her breasts
covering every centimeter. Follow your tongue with light fingertip caresses, leaving her nipples until last. When both breasts are suitably wet from your tongue, cup your hand over one breast at a time so that the tip of her nipple rests in between your thumb and your index finger. Squeeze the fingers together so that you raise her nipple slightly, and then begin licking it with the tip of your tongue in circular motions. After about a dozen licks or so, pucker your lips around the nipple and suck gently, but firmly, let your head bob up and down simultaneously. To enhance oral nipple sensation, put an ice cube in your mouth while lavishing her orally. Don’t forget to give equal attention to both breasts and nipples. When she is climaxing do not stop or change what you are doing. Let her push you away when she is ready.

40. His Perinium

Did you know that you can stimulate the prostate without going inside the anus? Find his ‘million dollar point,’ an area sometimes called the ‘taint’ because it ‘taint the anus and it ‘taint the balls, it’s that strip in between -‐ and feel around for a small indentation about the size of a pea. Gently press inward. This technique alone can induce mind-‐blowing orgasms, by itself or accompanied by a skillful blowjob!

41. The P-spot

If penetration is something you’re open to, find the P-‐spot about 2 to 3 inches inside his anus, close to anterior wall of the rectum. Go very slowly, and use plenty of lubrication. Never poke the prostate directly, but gently caress it, by moving your ;inger side to side, or ‘milking’ it with a ‘come hither’ motion. You can also press it gently like a doorbell.

For advanced prostate play, there are many excellent toys available, from small butt plugs and vibrators to large dildos – just make sure the toy has a flared base so that it is never in danger of escaping inside the rectum.

42. Braingasm

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